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Community Guidelines

Last Updated: January 26, 2026

Computer Love is a community built on respect, authenticity, and meaningful connections. These guidelines help ensure everyone has a safe and positive experience.

Be Safe

  • Protect Your Personal Information: Don't share your phone number, address, financial information, or other sensitive details until you're comfortable.
  • Meet in Public: If you decide to meet in person, choose a public place and let someone know your plans.
  • Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, it probably is. Don't hesitate to unmatch or report suspicious behavior.
  • Report Suspicious Behavior: Help us keep the community safe by reporting fake profiles, scams, or harassment.
  • Video Verify: Look for the verification badge to confirm someone is who they claim to be.

Be Respectful

  • Treat Others Well: Be kind, considerate, and respectful in all interactions.
  • Respect Boundaries: No means no. Respect others' decisions and boundaries.
  • No Harassment: Harassment, bullying, stalking, or threatening behavior is not tolerated.
  • Accept Rejection Gracefully: Not everyone will be interested. Move on respectfully.
  • Respect Privacy: Don't screenshot or share others' content without permission.

Be Authentic

  • Be Yourself: Use recent, accurate photos of yourself.
  • One Account Per Person: Don't create multiple accounts or impersonate others.
  • Accurate Information: Provide truthful information about yourself, including age.
  • No Catfishing: Don't use someone else's photos or identity.
  • Verify Your Profile: Complete photo verification to show you're genuine.

Prohibited Behavior

Absolutely Not Allowed:

  • Underage Users: You must be 18+ to use Computer Love.
  • Sexual Content: No nudity, sexually explicit content, or solicitation.
  • Violence: No threats, promotion of violence, or graphic content.
  • Hate Speech: No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, or discrimination of any kind.
  • Illegal Activity: No illegal content or activity, including drugs, weapons, or human trafficking.
  • Scams: No scamming, phishing, or fraudulent activity.
  • Spam: No spam, promotional content, or solicitation without permission.
  • Self-Harm: No content promoting self-harm or suicide.

Prohibited Content:

  • Nudity or sexually explicit photos/videos
  • Photos of minors (other than your own in appropriate contexts)
  • Graphic violence or gore
  • Hate symbols or imagery
  • Copyrighted content you don't own
  • Photos that aren't of you
  • Heavily filtered or misleading photos

Nightclub Room Guidelines

  • Respect the Host: Follow the room host's instructions and theme.
  • No Recording: Don't record, screenshot, or share content from rooms without consent.
  • Appropriate Behavior: Keep conversations and content appropriate for all participants.
  • No Harassment: Don't harass, bully, or make others uncomfortable.
  • Fair Play: No cheating in games or exploiting game mechanics.
  • Positive Vibes: Contribute positively to the room atmosphere.
  • Vote Responsibly: Only vote to remove users for legitimate rule violations.

Messaging Guidelines

  • First Messages: Men must wait for women to respond before sending additional messages.
  • Conversation Unlocking: Once a woman responds, normal conversation can begin.
  • Be Respectful: Don't send unsolicited explicit messages or photos.
  • No Spam: Don't send copy-paste messages to multiple people.
  • Report Issues: Report harassment, inappropriate content, or spam immediately.

Creator Guidelines (Paid Sessions)

  • Age Verification: Must complete enhanced ID verification before offering paid sessions.
  • Professional Conduct: Maintain professional boundaries during paid sessions.
  • No Off-Platform Payment: All payments must go through Computer Love.
  • Appropriate Content: Keep sessions within community guidelines.
  • Respect Boundaries: Either party can end a session at any time.
  • No Pressure: Don't pressure users to extend sessions or pay more.
  • Tax Compliance: You are responsible for reporting income and paying taxes.

Consequences for Violations

Depending on the severity and frequency of violations, we may take the following actions:

  • Warning: First-time minor violations may result in a warning.
  • Content Removal: Violating content will be removed.
  • Feature Restrictions: Temporary suspension from specific features (messaging, nightclub, etc.).
  • Account Suspension: Temporary suspension from the entire app.
  • Permanent Ban: Serious or repeated violations result in permanent account deletion.
  • Legal Action: Illegal activity may be reported to law enforcement.

Zero Tolerance Policy:

The following result in immediate permanent ban:

  • Minors using the app
  • Sexual exploitation or abuse
  • Violence or threats of violence
  • Illegal activity
  • Hate speech or severe harassment

How to Report Violations

If you encounter behavior that violates these guidelines:

  1. In-App Reporting: Use the report button on profiles, messages, or room participants.
  2. Block the User: You can block users to prevent further contact.
  3. Provide Details: Include as much information as possible when reporting.
  4. Contact Support: For urgent matters, contact customer support directly.

We review all reports promptly and take appropriate action. Your reports help keep the community safe.

Updates to Guidelines

We may update these guidelines from time to time to reflect changes in our community or services. Continued use of Computer Love constitutes acceptance of any updates.

Questions?

If you have questions about these guidelines or need to report something, please contact us:

Computer Love Support

Email: support@computerlove.app

Report: Use the in-app reporting feature

Thank you for being part of the Computer Love community! Together, we can create a safe, respectful, and enjoyable experience for everyone. 💖